Tag Archives: repentance

Damage Control | Bible Gleanings | June 28-29, 2025

The prosperous paradise became a desolate graveyard in a matter of weeks. The air was unbreathable. Pests invaded homes and raided pantries. Livestock perished by the thousands. Leprous skin diseases broke out. Darkness covered the land, and even the water turned to blood.

This is not a scene from an apocalyptic movie, however. It was real life for the ancient Egyptians during the plagues God sent to compel Pharaoh to fear the Lord and free the Israelites from slavery. But more jaw-dropping than the severity of the plagues themselves was Pharaohโ€™s spiritual schizophreniaโ€”his flip-flopping inconsistency. He begged for mercy when the plagues were too hard to bear, but hardened his heart the moment things got better. When he couldnโ€™t take anymore, he cried, โ€œPlead for me . . . This time I have sinned; the Lord is in the right, and I and my people are in the wrong . . . Go, serve the Lord; your little ones also may go with youโ€ (Ex. 8:28; 9:27; 10:24). Even his advisors warned, โ€œLet the men go, that they may serve the Lord their God. Do you not yet understand that Egypt is ruined?โ€ (Ex. 10:7).

Yet, as soon as the skies cleared and the frogs croaked their last, the Scripture says, โ€œBut when Pharaoh saw that there was a respite, he hardened his heart and would not listen to them, as the Lord had saidโ€ (Ex. 8:15; cf. Ex. 8:32; 9:34; 10:20, 27). He did not hate his sinโ€”he hated the consequences of it. He despised discomfort, not disobedience. His heart ached because of the suffering caused by his sin, but not because of sin itself. 

But before we point too many fingers at Pharaoh, we would do well to look in the mirror. How often do we mourn over our sin only because it seizes our comfort, robs our peace, and afflicts our consciences? We are often more upset by the plagues sin brings upon our lives than by the fact that sin is offensive to our holy God. And letโ€™s be honest: if we could sin without consequences, many of us would do so without hesitation and harden our hearts even worse than Pharaoh. That is not sin-hating repentance at allโ€”it is damage-control.

As the Puritan John Owen wrote, โ€œWe must hate all sin, as sin, and not just that which troubles us. To seek mortification only because a sin troubles us proceeds from self-love . . . A man who only opposes the sin in his heart for fear of shame among men or eternal punishment from God would practice the sin if there were no punishment attending it.โ€ In other words, genuine repentance is marked by grief over what sin is, not merely by what sin does (2 Cor. 7:10). As believers, we should hate our sin not simply because it harms us, but because it grieves and defies the God who saved us from it.


Brandon is the pastor of Bandana Baptist Church in Bandana, Kentucky, where he lives with his wife, Dakota, and their three dogs, Susie, Aries, and Dot. Brandon and Dakota are also foster parents through Sunrise Children’s Services of Kentucky. Brandon is also a published author and a religious columnist for the Advance Yeoman newspaper in Ballard County, Kentucky. He is also a devotional contributor for Kentucky Today, a news publication of the Kentucky Baptist Convention. His columns are also featured in the Times-Argus newspaper of Central City, Kentucky, West Kentucky News of western Kentucky, and the online blog, Reforming the Heart.

The Right Thing After the Wrong Things | Bible Gleanings – March 2-3, 2024

The best thing to do is always the right thing to doโ€”especially after doing the wrong thing. And that was the experience of an intoxicated driver in North Yorkshire, England. Earlier this month, English police received a call from a man who turned himself in over the phone, confessing that he had been driving drunk. He made the reckless decision to get behind the wheel after a long weekend of heavy drinking, but fortunately, he realized his mistake and reported himself to the authorities. According to the Associated Press, โ€œWhen officers arrived, the 52-year-old man was in a van on the side of the road. A breath test revealed he was three times over the legal limit.โ€

He made the best decision after making a bad decision. He did the right thing after doing the wrong thing. And thatโ€™s what the Lord commands us to do when weโ€™ve done the wrong thing. When we sin against God, we cannot go back in time to undo our actions. But, we can set things right by โ€œturning ourselves inโ€ to the Lord through confession of our sins.

Unconfessed sin yields nothing but destruction, demise, and dismay. โ€œWhoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper,โ€ warned Solomon, โ€œbut he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercyโ€ (Prov. 28:13). Achan of old learned the hard way that failure to confess oneโ€™s sins results in wreckage and woe (Josh. 7:1-15). And David reminds us that sin will consume us until we confess it: โ€œFor when I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. For day and night your hand was heavy upon me; my strength was dried up as by the heat of summerโ€ (Psalm 32:3-4).

Thankfully, cleansing and forgiveness is available when we contritely confess our sins to the Lord: โ€œIf we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousnessโ€ (1 John 1:9). When David eventually confessed his sins, God forgave him as well: โ€œI acknowledged my sin to you, and I did not cover my iniquity; I said, โ€œI will confess my transgressions to the LORD,โ€ and you forgave the iniquity of my sin. Selahโ€ (Psalm 32:5).

Therefore, when you commit sin, immediately confess it to the Lord in the place of prayer. Refrain from self-punishment, and do not dwell on your guilt. Do not engage in other good works to appease your conscience either. Instead, be frank and forthright about your sin, as king David was after he committed adultery with Bathsheba and slew her husband: โ€œFor I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me. Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words  and blameless in your judgmentโ€ (Psalm 51:3-4).

Bible Gleanings is a widely-read weekend devotional column, written for the Murray Ledger & Times in Calloway County, Kentucky. 

Brandon is the founder and main contributor to Brandon’s Desk, the blog with biblical resources from his ministry. He pastored the family of believers at Locust Grove Baptist Church in Murray, Kentucky for six years. He and his wife Dakota live there with their three dogs, Susie (Jack Russell), Aries (English Shepherd), and Dot (Bluetick Beagle).

For more devotional entries like this, check out Brandon’s latest book, Bible Gleanings Volume II, which features 100 daily devotionals gleaned from God’s word:

Little Sins | Bible Gleanings – July 8-9, 2023

New York City has recently installed sophisticated traffic cameras equipped with sound detectors capable of measuring excessive decibels rumbling from motorcycle exhausts and souped-up sports cars. According to the Associated Press, more than seventy drivers have already been ticketed for such โ€œexcessive noise.โ€ Now, hit the brakes for a moment: doesnโ€™t it seem like something so insignificant would fly under the radar? After all, itโ€™s only noise, and reckless or drunk driving are certainly more serious crimes. Excessive noise may seem like a โ€œlittle sin,โ€ but it is illegal in the eyes of NYC law, and there are now both watching eyes and listening ears everywhere to catch lawbreakers.

There are also transgressions of Godโ€™s law that we may deem as โ€œlittle sinsโ€ that God overlooks, ignores, or excuses. We tend to think that sins such as white lies, stretching the truth, and gluttony fly under Godโ€™s radar. But, according to the Scripture, even โ€œlittleโ€ sins are big to God, and all of them deserve eternal death (Ezek. 18:4; Rom. 6:23). We typically see sin like we would see skyscrapers from ground levelโ€”some of them tower in the clouds, while others are fairly small by contrast. But God sees sin as satellites see skyscrapers from space: they all seem to be the same size. And thus, all wickedness is worthy of woeful wrath from Godโ€™s vantage point (Isa. 13:11).

Moreover, His eyes are always watching and His ears are always listening. And He doesnโ€™t need traffic cameras to observe us at all timesโ€”He can see what man is doing even with His eyes closed: โ€œThe LORD is in his holy temple; the LORDโ€™s throne is in heaven; his eyes see, his eyelids test the children of manโ€ (Psalm 11:4). We cannot escape His penetrating sight or His constant omnipresenceโ€”He sees everything and He is everywhere (Rev. 19:12; Ezek. 1:19-21). Thatโ€™s why the writer of Hebrews said, โ€œAnd no creature is hidden from his sight, but all are naked and exposed to the eyes of him to whom we must give accountโ€ (Heb. 4:13).

Furthermore, God rigorously records every sin in His perfect ledger of divine justice, from the smallest white lie to the most heinous homicide. And when His record books are opened on the day of judgment, the guilty will answer for themโ€”even for the โ€œlittleโ€ sins (Rev. 20:12). As Charles H. Spurgeon preached,

โ€œAn eternity of woe is prepared for what men call โ€œlittle sins.โ€ It is not alone the murderer, the drunkard, the whoremonger, that shall be sent to hell. The wicked, it is true, shall be sent there, but the โ€œlittle sinnerโ€ with all the nations that forget God shall have his portion there also. Tremble, therefore, on account of little sins.โ€

And there is only one way to have your record cleared and to be forgiven of your โ€œbigโ€ or โ€œlittleโ€ sins: through salvation in Jesus Christ. Only He can erase and eradicate your record of sin debt, and He does so when you turn to Him in repentance and faith (Col. 2:14). โ€œRepent therefore, and turn back, that your sins may be blotted outโ€ (Acts 3:19). 

Bible Gleanings is a widely-read weekend devotional column, written for the Murray Ledger & Times in Calloway County, Kentucky. 

Brandon is the founder and main contributor to Brandon’s Desk, the blog with biblical resources from his ministry. He pastored the family of believers at Locust Grove Baptist Church in Murray, Kentucky for six years. He and his wife Dakota live there with their three dogs, Susie (Jack Russell), Aries (English Shepherd), and Dot (Bluetick Beagle).

For more devotional entries like this, check out Brandon’s latest book, Bible Gleanings Volume II, which features 100 daily devotionals gleaned from God’s word:

A Quittin’ Meeting | Bible Gleanings – July 1-2, 2023

During the old days of tent revivals and camp meetings, a certain preacher held revivals which he called โ€œQuittinโ€™ Meetings,โ€ where people would come forward to openly repent of their sin, committing to quit various vices once and for all. Those in attendance readily renounced their evils and resolved to repudiate the ravaging sins in their lives. โ€œIโ€™m quittinโ€™ smokinโ€™ and a-drinkinโ€™ right here and now,โ€ one proclaimed. โ€œIโ€™m quittinโ€™ swearinโ€™ and gossip-tellinโ€™ and I mean it!โ€ exclaimed another. And one particular woman came forward at the end of the service, and when asked what she was quitting, she replied, โ€œI ainโ€™t been doing anything, and I am gonna quit that too!โ€

And that is what happens when you are truly converted by Jesus. When you come to Christ, you have a โ€œquittinโ€™ meetingโ€ where you repent of your old sinful ways, and you have a โ€œstartinโ€™ meeting,โ€ where you start to live a new life of obedience. You kick your sins to the curb, and take up your cross to follow Jesus (Luke 9:23). You renounce the wicked works of darkness to live a life marked by good works (Rom. 13:12; James 2:14-26). You shed the filthy garments of your former ways and dress in the new attire of virtuous Christian living (Col. 3:5-14). The โ€œold youโ€ is buried in the grave of repentance, and you become a new person, enabled by Christโ€™s resurrection-power to walk in โ€œnewness of lifeโ€ (Romans 6:4). 

Paul described it like this:

โ€œSo you also should consider yourselves to be dead to the power of sin and alive to God through Christ Jesus. Do not let sin control the way you live; do not give in to sinful desires. Do not let any part of your body become an instrument of evil to serve sin. Instead, give yourselves completely to God, for you were dead, but now you have new life. So use your whole body as an instrument to do what is right for the glory of Godโ€ (Rom. 6:11-13, NLT).

And this quittinโ€™ and startinโ€™ meeting is not something we do once at our conversion. It must be a continual practice. That is why the Scripture says, โ€œPut off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, [and be] renewed in the spirit of your minds, [and] put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holinessโ€ (Eph. 4:22-24). Have you had a โ€œquittinโ€™ meetingโ€ with Jesus? And, if you have, what is He calling you to quit and start?

Bible Gleanings is a widely-read weekend devotional column, written for the Murray Ledger & Times in Calloway County, Kentucky. 

Brandon is the founder and main contributor to Brandon’s Desk, the blog with biblical resources from his ministry. He pastored the family of believers at Locust Grove Baptist Church in Murray, Kentucky for six years. He and his wife Dakota live there with their three dogs, Susie (Jack Russell), Aries (English Shepherd), and Dot (Bluetick Beagle).

For more devotional entries like this, check out Brandon’s latest book, Bible Gleanings Volume II, which features 100 daily devotionals gleaned from God’s word:

The Dangerous Christ | Bible Gleanings | March 4-5, 2023

In C. S. Lewisโ€™ famous work, The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe, Mr. Beaver tells Susan that Aslan, the ruler of Narnia, is a great lion. Susan is naturally surprised because she imagined that Aslan was a man, not a beast. โ€œI shall feel rather nervous about meeting a lion,โ€ she tells Mr. Beaver. And then she asks if he is a safe lion, to which Mr. Beaver replies, โ€œSafe? Who said anything about safe? โ€˜Course he isnโ€™t safe. But heโ€™s good. Heโ€™s the King.โ€

The same is true of Jesus, the King of kings (Rev. 19:16). He is dangerously unsafe, especially to those who love their sin, because He calls sinners to forsake their sins and follow Him. Jesus is dangerous to sinners in the same way that a lifesaver is dangerous to a swimmer basking in the warm ocean while a life-threatening tsunami roars behind himโ€”the lifesaver might ruin his good time, but it will save his life. So also, the gracious Lord rips sinners from sinโ€™s warm and merry waters, but He saves them from the tsunami of Godโ€™s roaring wrath. He may be dangerous, but He is good.

Moreover, Jesus is not safe for those who prefer comfort over sacrifice. Following Him is not cheap. You will have to deny your sinful flesh daily (Luke 9:23). You will have to put your hand to the plow without looking back (Luke 9:62). You will have to carry your cross all the way to death (Luke 14:27).

Therefore, Jesus admonished all His would-be followers to count the great cost of following Him. He warned, โ€œFor which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it? Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him, saying, โ€˜This man began to build and was not able to finish.โ€™ Or what king, going out to encounter another king in war, will not sit down first and deliberate whether he is able with ten thousand to meet him who comes against him with twenty thousand? And if not, while the other is yet a great way off, he sends a delegation and asks for terms of peaceโ€ (Luke 14:28-32). Indeed, following Jesus is costly, but what a great gain it is! As Paul said, โ€œIndeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christโ€ (Phil. 3:8).

Bible Gleanings is a widely-read weekend devotional column, written for the Murray Ledger & Times in Calloway County, Kentucky. 

Brandon is the founder and main contributor to Brandon’s Desk, the blog with biblical resources from his ministry. He pastored the family of believers at Locust Grove Baptist Church in Murray, Kentucky for six years. He and his wife Dakota live there with their three dogs, Susie (Jack Russell), Aries (English Shepherd), and Dot (Bluetick Beagle).

For more devotional entries like this, check out Brandon’s latest book, Bible Gleanings Volume II, which features 100 daily devotionals gleaned from God’s word:

Real Repentance | Bible Gleanings – Feb 25-26, 2023

The satanically-inspired music, obscene video games, and t-shirts with lewd designs were all burned without a shred of regret. I was a new believer, and I had just read the words of Jesus, where He requires repentance from all who wish to follow Him: โ€œSo therefore, any one of you who does not renounce all that he has cannot be my discipleโ€ (Luke 14:33). Therefore, I incinerated the emblems of my former life because God had stoked the flames of true repentance in my heart. I knew that such things couldnโ€™t come along in my new Christian pilgrimageโ€”they had to be left behind for Christ. And that is what real repentance is all about.

Repentance is more than regret or remorse (cf. 2 Cor. 7:10-11). Repentance is not when you cryโ€”itโ€™s when you change. It involves a deliberate rejection and renunciation of sin. It is a holy determination that says, โ€œI am done with sin and I am abandoning it for the Savior.โ€ Repentance is letting go of your sins and taking hold of Christ (cf. Luke 9:23-27; 18:18-30).

Real repentance entails divorcing sin and “marrying” Jesus, no matter the cost. It is what the practitioners of black magic exhibited in Acts 19, which says, โ€œAlso many of those who were now believers came, confessing and divulging their practices. And a number of those who had practiced magic arts brought their books together and burned them in the sight of all. And they counted the value of them and found it came to fifty thousand pieces of silverโ€ (vv. 18-19). The loss of their valuable magic books didnโ€™t matter when they were gaining Christ (cf. Phil. 3:7-11).

Have you genuinely repented of your sin and surrendered to Christ? Have you laid aside all the weights of iniquity that would keep you from following Christ (Heb. 12:1)? If so, repentance is something you should still practice as a believer. After all, the Lord calls even His children to repent (cf. 2 Chron. 7:14; Rev. 2:5, 16, 21-22; 3:3, 19). As the reformer John Calvin once said, โ€œRepentance is not merely the start of the Christian life; it is the Christian life.โ€

Believer, sing the words of I Am Resolved in your heart and life as you continue to repent of sin:

โ€œI am resolved no longer to linger,

charmed by the world’s delight;

things that are higher, things that are nobler,

these have allured my sight.

I will hasten to Him,

hasten so glad and free;

Jesus, greatest, highest,

I will come to Thee.

I am resolved to go to the Savior,

leaving my sin and strife;

He is the true one, He is the just one,

He has the words of life.โ€

โ€” Palmer Hartsough (1844-1932)

Bible Gleanings is a widely-read weekend devotional column, written for the Murray Ledger & Times in Calloway County, Kentucky. 

Brandon is the founder and main contributor to Brandon’s Desk, the blog with biblical resources from his ministry. He pastored the family of believers at Locust Grove Baptist Church in Murray, Kentucky for six years. He and his wife Dakota live there with their three dogs, Susie (Jack Russell), Aries (English Shepherd), and Dot (Bluetick Beagle).

For more devotional entries like this, check out Brandon’s latest book, Bible Gleanings Volume II, which features 100 daily devotionals gleaned from God’s word:

Sermon: Going Back to Work on God’s House (Haggai 1:12-15) | Aug 25, 2019

Brandon is the founder and main contributor to Brandon’s Desk, the blog with biblical resources from his ministry. He is proud to be the pastor of the family of believers at Locust Grove Baptist Church in Murray, Kentucky. He and his wife Dakota live there with their three dogs, Susie (Jack Russell), Aries (English shepherd), and Dot (beagle).

Turn Around | Bible Gleanings – May 1-2, 2021

Turn Around

โ€œNO SERVICE.โ€ Those are the last words you want to see on your cellphone when youโ€™re on an unfamiliar road. But they appeared on my screen as I drove through the grassy glades of Mark Twain National Forest in the Show-Me State. I was counting on John Denverโ€”hopefully the country roads would indeed take me home, because without access to my phoneโ€™s GPS, I was lost.

The good thing is, I always have a backup plan (although it doesnโ€™t always work). An ancient suction-cup GPS the size of a VHS tape never leaves my vehicle. Speaking of VHS tapes, itโ€™s about as old and outdated as they are, so itโ€™s always a risk to trust it. Nevertheless, I typed โ€œH-O-M-Eโ€ in the search bar and made a beeline for home.

That is, until I was abruptly commanded to turn left onto an older highway that apparently hadnโ€™t seen a car in ten years. The poor road was afflicted with potholes and was a dump for motoristโ€™s trash. Even from the dead end sign you could see that this road led nowhere but to death, for nothing lay at the end but a heap of lifeless tree limbs, broken concrete, and shattered asphalt.

I had a moment of realization that I was going down the wrong road, and listening to my unreliable GPS was the problem. Therefore, I made the decision to turn around, ignore my GPS, and go the right way instead. Turning around to drive on the right road was the only solution. Stepping out to repair the wrong road wouldnโ€™t help me. Pretending like I wasnโ€™t on the wrong road wouldnโ€™t get me on the right road. And feeling remorse for being on the wrong road wouldnโ€™t do any good either.

The same is true if you want to go to heaven and take the right road that leads to eternal life (Matt. 7:14). You must first have a Spirit-induced moment of realization, which the Bible calls โ€œconviction,โ€ where God the Spirit says to you, โ€œLookโ€”you are on the wrong road!โ€ Since the GPS of your heart is wired by sin to command you, โ€œTurn away from Godโ€ (Romans 3:11), you are born driving on โ€œthe way [that] is easy that leads to destructionโ€ (Matt. 7:13).

Once you understand that you are on a hellbound highway, you need to turn around and drive towards Jesus. This is what Scripture calls โ€œrepentance.โ€ Repentance is turning away from sin and the wrong road, and turning toward Jesus, the only way that leads to the Father (John 14:6). Improving yourself with good works and spiritual resolutions wonโ€™t take you off the wrong road. Feeling sorry for being on the wrong road wonโ€™t turn you around. Pretending like youโ€™re not on the wrong road wonโ€™t do it either. โ€œRepent therefore, and turn back, that your sins may be blotted outโ€ (Acts 3:19).


Bible Gleanings is a widely-read weekend devotional column, written for the Murray Ledger & Times in Calloway County, Kentucky. 

Brandon is the founder and main contributor to Brandon’s Desk, the blog with biblical resources from his ministry. He pastored the family of believers at Locust Grove Baptist Church in Murray, Kentucky for six years. He and his wife Dakota live there with their three dogs, Susie (Jack Russell), Aries (English Shepherd), and Dot (Bluetick Beagle).

Weekend Reflections: Public Confession and Inviting People to Church

Public Confession & Repentance

We had an interesting experience at church a few Sundays ago, and it’s caused me to do a little reflection of my own. We had a member to come before the church and openly confess their sin. I’ve never seen this done before in my 4 years of serving at this church. It was during the invitation time, where anyone is invitedย to come forward to pray, have prayer, join the church, or receive Christ as their Savior. Theologically speaking, our church understands that this is notย theย onlyย timeย God is at work, but we recognize the importance of the invitation because it is a time to respond to what we’ve just heard preached from God’s word. This person came forward, convicted by the Spirit through the preaching of the word, and confessedย openly before us what they had recently done. Now, for confidentiality reasons I cannot reveal any more than this. But what this individual did really had me thinking, Is openly confessing sin like this biblical? Is it biblical or even helpful to publicly repent the way they did?

From Scripture, I am familiar with the command to “confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed” (James 5:16a). But this verse seems to advocate for a type of confession that is more personalย in nature – one that is more along the lines of “man-to-man” confession. In other words, the kind of confession James is talking about is confession of sin “to one another.” ย It supports more of a personal confession to possibly one or two people.

At the same time, I think there are times when public confession and repentance are necessary. I think it all depends on how seriousย the committed sin really is.ย Here’s the principle I think we should use when determining whether a sin should be confessed publicly before the church:

“But as for confession, I think the principle is that the extent of the confession should match the extent of the sin.” ยน

That’s John Piper quoted above. He was asked the question, “When should we confess sins publicly?” I believe that Piper is on target. If a sin committed is very great, the repentance and confession should also be very great. This is where public confession and repentance comes in.

Not all sins carry the same consequences. There’s a world of difference in the extent of sin, when for example, a leader in the church uses foul language or decides to commit adultery. To the Lord, the sins are equally as offensive; to others, the consequences vary.ย jimmy-swaggart-crying-sinnedThe consequences of a leader who cursesย the door upon which he stubbed his toe are far less than the consequences of a leader who lives in an adulterous relationship. You may recall that this exact thing happened with the famous evangelistย Jimmy Swaggart.ย 

So with that in mind, as I’ve studied and pondered this unique experience, I want to say first that it took a lotย of courage to do what they did. It’s more courage than I can say that I have. And I think there are times and instances where it is helpful and biblical to publicly repent before the whole church, but other times I think that we should not. I think this particular occasion was very appropriate for public repentance – and I believe that it was biblical and helpful. The particular sin they confessed was one that is far-reaching and has terrible consequences –ย and I believe they did the right thing. The extent of their sin was very great, so they made sure their public confession and repentance was very great as well. And as an aside, they even demonstrated true restoration the next Sunday – the expected results of publicly repenting before the church. It was truly beautiful to witness firsthand.

If only the rest of us could have godly sorrow and repentance like they did over the sins inย ourย lives. We need repentance and godly sorrow like they demonstrated forย everyย sin in our lives – whether the consequences are great or small. I commend them for their courage and for not harboring sin in their lives, but confessing it openly before us. We’re all broken in different ways – God gives us grace to be restored, and we help each other along in the church. The church is aย hospitalย for sinners – a place where we “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ” (Galatians 6:2).

Regularly Inviting People to Church

On this same Sunday, we had a special occasion at our church where we invited at least oneย friend to church with us. Lately, our church attendance has been down, and our pastor has challenged us to be more evangelistically-focused. Particularly in the area of inviting people to church. Now, clearly inviting people to church is notย evangelism, nor is it a substitute for it. But inviting people to church is a practical component for faithful evangelism. It’s part of the way we build relationships with those we evangelize – and relationships are essential to discipleship.

We got on board with a program known as Invite Your One,ย directed and founded by Thom Rainerยฒ, the president and CEO of LifeWay Christian Resources. invite-your-oneIt’s a church-wide campaign that focuses on inviting at leastย oneย person to church with you on a designated Sunday. It’s a practical way to get church members to be more evangelistic and regularly share Christ with people, and invite them to worship at their church. Needless to say, our church was loaded that day – and all of the guests present were friends or relatives of those who invited them. What is truly praiseworthy is that many of the guests returned the following Sunday.

This experience was memorable and it confirmed a belief that I have deeply held for a number of years: building relationships with those we invite to church nearly guarantees they will come. I truly believe that if we will befriend people, saved or unsaved, the likelihood of their church attendance at ourย churches will increase greatly. People don’t stumble in to churches by random choice these days. In fact, it’s likely quite trustworthy to say that the reason a person goes to one church and not another is because they were invited and welcomed by a friend or relative. Theyย knowย they will seeย youย when they come – you are the bridge they’ll cross in order to come to your church. They won’t cross a bridge they don’t know.

Once again, this doesn’t replace evangelism – we should preach the gospel relationship or not. But people are moreย receptive to the gospel when they see it’s transforming power in the life of a friend or relative. And those same people are more receptive to invitations to church services when they areย inย the life of a friend or relative. So who will you befriend this week? Who is God laying on your heart to evangelize? Who is coming to church with you on Sunday?


  1. Piper, John. “When Should We Confess Sins Publicly?”ย Desiring God,ย ย 19th of May 2008. Accessed 26th of September 2016.

  2. Thom Rainer has a plethora of resources on church growth. Check out his blog here.